How Can You Help A Pregnant Woman Make a Safe Choice? 

Women facing an unintended pregnancy often experience initial reactions of fear, anger, and confusion upon learning that they are pregnant. In some instances, women do not know they are pregnant for many months or are in denial of the pregnancy. Often the loving support and understanding of a friend or family member is all that is needed to help a woman dealing with an unintended pregnancy make safe and legal choices.  

If you suspect your daughter, friend, wife, or relative is pregnant, and believe she is denying or concealing the pregnancy, you have a responsibility to do the following:  

Ask her if she is pregnant;  

Acknowledge the pregnancy in a non-judgmental manner;  

Provide her with information on her options and offer support, love and guidance so that she can make an informed decision about how best to handle the unintended pregnancy;  

Assist her in finding a doctor or health clinic to receive pre-natal care to protect her health and the health of the baby;   

Provide her with the emotional support she needs during this often confusing and difficult time. 

Often women facing an unintended pregnancy are afraid to share their secret with anyone, even close family and friends. If you suspect someone close to you is denying or concealing a pregnancy, please reach out to her and offer your support and assistance. By doing so, you will help a woman make a safe choice about her pregnancy. 

If you suspect someone close to you is in this situation, have the courage to reach out to her to make a difference in her life and the life of the baby.